What Is Rape?
Rape is an act of violence when a person is forcibly sexually assaulted against her/his will. Not all rapes are sexually motivated: most are activated by the desire to control and dominate. Rape need not involve an assault by a stranger in a dark alley nor resemble sex scenes in films or novels. People can be and are sexually assaulted by friends, family, neighbors, dates, acquaintances, coworkers, etc. In many cases the rapist is known to the victim, often trusted.
Why a Brochure on Rape?
Rape and sexual assault are serious societal problems that you, or someone you know, may encounter. No age, sex, race or economic status is exempt. Each of us is a potential victim. If we increase our awareness of this problem and take precautions, we can decrease the chances of being a victim. This page has been created to heighten your awareness of rape and to let you know about the services that are available at the University and in the surrounding community.
What to Do if You Become a Victim of Rape
Acquaintance Rape
Acquaintance rape occurs when an
individual is forced by someone he or she knows to participate in
sexual activity. Threats and intimidation, as well as physical
restraint are often present in an acquaintance rape situation.
Acquaintance rape is the most common form of rape on college
campuses. Acquaintance rape occurs most often during or after
social events such as parties at bars, fraternity/sorority
parties, or other places where students may socialize while using
alcohol or drugs. It can even occur on a date.
We have certain expectations about what men's and women's roles
should be and at times these expectations conflict with our true
feelings. It is the responsibility of both men and women to
communicate their feelings directly and to respect each other's
right to say NO.
Ways to Avoid Acquaintance Rape
Be assertive and sure of what you want to do. Make plans ahead of time so that someone will know where you are. Pay attention to what is happening around you. Do not put yourself in a vulnerable situation. Avoid excessive use of alcohol or drugs. They interfere with your ability to communicate and increase your chances of being assaulted. Make conscious and active choices. Say what you mean and express what you feel. Most of all, do not be afraid to say "NO".
Do not imagine that because someone has spent a lot of time, attention or money on you that it obligates you sexually. You have a right to say "NO".
Remember - no one is ever responsible for being raped, regardless of the circumstances.
You may feel guilt, embarrassment, anger or hopelessness, but you will not be alone. We are here to provide the support and understanding you may need.
Take Responsible Precautions
While Walking:
While at home:
While in your car: