Eric Migernier brought up a very good point when he said that choice
is a good thing. I don't think there is much of an argument for that,
at least not in this country. But we must remember that our choices have
consequences that we cannot control. It is certainly everyone's right
to chose whom they will marry, have sex with or have any other kind of
relationship with.But our decisions do not end there.
Sometimes we are ridiculed for our decisions, and no amount of legislation
will ever change that. The blessing and curse of our country is that the
government cannot regulate opinions. That means everyone is free to choose,
even people who express only hate for others. Does this mean everyone
should conform to avoid embarrassing situations? Of course not, but nobody
can expect total acceptance when they do something out of the ordinary.
The best example of this is Jesus. Though it is not always apparent by
looking at present-day Christians, Jesus was a radical. Not many people
go around claiming to be the Son of God, and there was no special legislation
protecting people who did. So Jesus had to put up with ridicule, and he
continued to do what he knew was right. That's all any of us can do.
I must set my standards and live up to them as best I can. And if I'm
ridiculed for not drinking, or for waiting until I'm married to have sex,
then I have to deal with that. The situations involving the gay community
on this campus are sad because people are acting out of hate instead of
love, and that never fixes the problem.
Aaron Upton, sophomore
Keep it in your bedrooms
What makes all of you homosexuals or bisexuals think I care what you
do in your bedroom. Personally, I don't. I am going to do all you gays
a favor and let you in on a secret, society is not going to change to
accommodate your lifestyle. As long as the Lord is in charge the Bible
believing Christians are not going to be willing to change their mind.
Quit crying, nobody wants to hear it. Until a gay Martin Luther King
Jr. steps on the stage and helps the fight for gay rights, you will not
be accepted. That's the way it is and instead of complaining about it
you should start dealing with it. If someone dyes their hair green they're
going to get stared at. Why, because it's not normal. Just as two individuals
of the same sex having sex is not normal. You will receive more attention
and it's not going to be positive.
In response to the new gay fraternity on campus, that's fine with me.
The only problem I have is why you think you deserve something special
that no other fraternity gets. You cry about being equal, then quit asking
for something special. You talk about wanting to become a strong minority,
you might want to start with finding a strong group of non-homosexual
people that will be on your side during this battle. But wait a second,
it's never going to happen. At least, as I said earlier, while the Lord
is still a strong and influential figure in this country.
I don't want people to get the wrong impression, I know a few gay people
and think they're great individuals. They don't talk about their gay rights
because they know no one wants to hear it. They accept society and I can
respect that. I don't go into a gay community and ask everyone to accommodate
my beliefs so why should a homosexual come into this mostly straight society
and ask us to accommodate theirs? Please, if you're a bi or homosexual
person on this campus and haven't cared to express your opinion before,
write me back in a letter to The Parthenon and answer that question. I
would like to know. If you choose to stay quiet that's fine, just do most
of us straight students a favor: Stop your bitching and keep it in your
bedroom.
Brandon Stevens, freshman